All of our actions, emotions, desires, cannot occur without our communication.
After all, we are the people – we can exchange ideas, listen to each other, to empathize, to rejoice, to share experiences. But sooner or later there is a situation where there is nothing to talk about. What are the topics of conversation in this case?
6. About yourself. Of course it is not necessary to tell all you life from the beginning, the person you talk to won’t just listen for a long time about how you plagued you a red cat in the yard, or how your mother on Sundays would cook you pancakes with cottage cheese. What are the details for? Talk about more fun things; remember the funny stories that befall you. The first conversation is better to make a more relaxed and easy. During this time you will be able to look at the person to determine if it matches your outlook on life and its various manifestations. Give the word to your companion. You may ask him about everything that interests you, but do not go too far.
7. News. If you do not want to immediately talk about yourself, do not worry! There are other themes that are appropriate to talk about. For example, news. Every day something is going on in the world. By reading any news, of course you’ve formed a definite opinion on the matter. The same thing happens with your interlocutor. So why don’t just discuss the latest news?
8. Dreams and plans. Do you have a dream? Share it, even if it is realizable only by half, or on your opinion is not feasible at all for your interlocutor it will be interesting to learn a little more about you. The plans for the future talk about how you see yourself in a few years. Note, that common goals always make the relationship stronger and enable them to achieve together.
9. Family. It is another interesting topic, especially if you are not familiar with the parents of your interlocutor, she or he will certainly be interested to know about your parents and your relationship with them and how you usually spend time together. Give examples from your life to prove your love to the family and share your dreams about your future family.
10. Friends. It is always good to know about each other’s friends. This is another step to learn more about your environment and about what you do when you spend your free time, tell me about a story that happened to you. Take an interest in her or his friends. Let tell your partner a story about his best friend and how they met, for example. Usually all the memories of friends are connected with the positive things in life and, therefore, talking about friends is always painted with bright colors.